If you don’t like me, you don’t know me!!
I’m not sure when I had my first experience with spicy. It may have been the weak “taco sauce” Mom used for her Wisconsin tacos. Or, the fact that my uncle pushed me, or tricked me into trying new foods. Like the time he gave me a bite of his “sirloin steak”. We were a family of little money and many children, so sirloin was not on the menu. I loved the new taste, even when he told me it was actually liver. With that experience in mind, it may have been Uncle Willy’s trickery that began my journey of fearless food discover, including spicy.
Tabasco is my all-time favorite, with its vinegar taste, a definite plus. I can’t imagine an egg without it. It was a requirement when eating in the mess hall. SOS with tabasco was one of the best parts of being in the Army.
When eating at a Mexican Restaurant, I’ll judge it by the salsa they serve when I first arrive. It must be tasty, and have a bite.
I keep a huge container of pickled jalapenos in the refrigerator and add them to most things. There is also a container of horseradish that is used regularly. I know horseradish is not the same hot as a habanero, but I love its “heat”.
I have even been known to put a touch of cayenne in my brownies. Just enough to have people wondering if there is something different about them.
I won’t say,” the hotter the better”. I need to be able to taste it, but I do love spicy
Recently I finished reading “The Birth Order” book and found it fascinating. Do you see yourself here?
- A list maker
- A problem solver
- Organized but have a messy desk
- An advice giver
- A people person with very few friends
- A perfectionist
- Someone who straightens pictures on walls or pillows on couches
If you answered yes to most of these traits, you are probably a first born or only child. As a firstborn you are scholarly, hard driving, a bit serious and critical and more than likely you don’t like surprises.
Or, are you:
- An attention seeker
- Class clown or comedian of the family
- A lover of surprises
- A people person
Yes to these and you take the lastborn or baby position. You are fun, the life of the party but can also be spoiled, impatient and impetuous. Often you feel as if you are not taken serious, especially by your family. Many of you, as Dr. Leman puts it, “have a burning desire to make an important contribution to the world”.
And last but not least, are you:
- A mediator
- A conflict avoider
- Loyal to your peers with many friends
These are the mysterious middle children. Their personalities are strongly influenced by the sibling directly above them. They may model them or go in a complete opposite direction. There have been many articles published and most agree that of all birth order positions, the middle child is the most difficult to define, let alone describe or generalize about.
There are 8 siblings in my family. I am the oldest and after 50 years I finally understand why I do certain things. I am also pleased to understand the whys of the rest of my sisters and brothers. Things just make sense now. I have no friends, I want no friends and it is okay because I am an oldest. Now when my brother Pat gets out on the dance floor when the song, “Play that Funky Music White Boy” comes on and dances to it, I understand he is not weird, he is the baby.
This is not an exact science but pretty close. It doesn’t always go as simply as I stated. Family situations and circumstances also come in to play. Oldest child can mean oldest daughter and oldest son. The gaps in age also make a difference.
After my father died, Mom remarried and they had two girls. So, actually Pat is not the baby but is the typical baby and the baby of the first six.
I listen and observe at all functions I go to and it is pretty easy to spot an oldest and a baby. I have fun with it and actually keep a notebook with me to write down what I see and predict the birth order. People are surprised if they haven’t heard about Dr. Lemans book or the others that are out there. It is a great discussion to have as they look at their own families.
This is written for Blogging 101, Day 6 – publish a post for your dream reader
I love to read, write, discuss. This is written for those who also love to read interesting books on fascinating subjects.
I read a lot of nonfiction. Any subject from nutrition and fitness to intelligence, birth order, addiction and so much more. I find these topics fascinating. Sometimes I find it difficult to “just” read. I want to share, I want to discuss.
In January of 2013 I made the decision to blog. My assumption was, I write, people read, discussion follows. Quickly I realized that I had to put some work in to it if I wanted people to look at my posts. Within a couple of months, I had over 100 fellow bloggers following me. The next realization I had was that, like Facebook, people collect people, friends, and followers. The majority of these people do not comment and I assume do not even read most posts. There is a small percentage who “like” and a handful who comment.
I never considered myself a writer or a photographer but I do both on my blog. I struggle with the writing more than the photography. I will continue to post and enjoy that handful of people I interact with as they make it worth it. Thank you to them!
This is for day 3 of Blogging 101. Penny for your thoughts.
When you first thought about blogging, you had a post idea; something you wanted to say, a photo to share, a story on the tip of your brain. Maybe you just wanted to cultivate a writing habit — but you probably had an idea for a post, no matter how nascent. Today, you’ll write it.
Who am I? Interesting question. The answer changes with time, although I am still, just Deb. At this point I’ll say I am a happy, healthy, vibrant and witty woman. I run, walk, kayak and bike. Next week is our first 5K trail run and the week after another 5K with our annual triathlon in August. I am more confident than I’ve ever been. An almost 2 year divorcee after a 35 year marriage. A Mom, Grandma, Daughter and oldest sister to 7. Most important is that I am a best friend and love to the most amazing man I’ve ever known.
Why am I here? As a so-so, off and on writer and new lover of photography with no friends (please give me no tips as it is the way I like it) and busy sibs, I need to share with someone.
This is shorter than I wanted but I am 2 days behind. This is yesterday’s assignment and still need to do today’s. I signed up for blogging 101 and am very excited to do the daily assignments. I will be changing my “about me” soon because I am a different person than I was a year ago.