My Michaels Mom has dementia and Alzheimers. Last year he and his brother took Marion from a home that did not meet her needs in NE Wisconsin, to a Wonderful place in Oregon near their sister. We had purchased tickets to fly out in September. We keep in contact w/sister and a couple days ago she said Mom is refusing to get out of bed and won’t eat. She is shutting down. Marion is a devout Christian and a warrior for Christ. We believe she just wants to go home to be with the Lord.
Yesterday sister called and told us that Mom is getting worse everyday. So, we called American Airlines and changed the flight. We fly out this afternoon and return on Friday. The woman at American was wonderful and charged us no fee plus got us great tickets at a great price. If anything changes we can stay longer or leave sooner with no fee. We are very impressed with them. The original tickets were non refundable and non transferable. So, last night I got things ready to leave our little cabin for a week. Watered the plants but I am worried as there is no rain in the forecast. Fingers crossed.
I had to put off my last week of training for my new Postal job until after we get home. My postmaster was great about it.
This is not a vacation but we will try to enjoy our time there. My Michael has made peace with his Moms disease and her eventual passing. But, you are never truly ready for it until it happens. I know that with my Moms death in 2010. I am there to be his support and take pics and videos. He is a memory keeper, My Michael.
I will be somewhat selfish as I am excited to be somewhere else and able to take pictures. Me and my new virgin like camera will be snapping away. I think with my 32G disc I can take over 1000 pictures. We are not too far from Eugene and not sure of the terrain there. My man says we are an hour from the ocean so that may not happen.
Found these beautiful flowers covered in bumblebees during our walk yesterday. We hadn’t walked down this road for a couple months and missed out on some great gardens near the road. This one had 3 bees.
This was the last and smallest of the piles of clothes from the shelves in the bedroom. I went through them all and got a huge bag for Goodwill. This cabin was built 40-50 yrs ago and it was intended to be used for weekends only. NO CLOSETS! Not one. The spare bedroom is packed full of boxes and assorted things that would normally be in a closet. I moved from a big house with a walk-in closet in the master bedroom and many closet through-out including a pantry and huge laundry room. I am not complaining. Merely saying it takes a different mindset to live in a home where you don’t keep what you don’t need.
I decided last week to take a picture of myself every day. This is one I took while sitting by the fire outside. I texted this beauty to a few siblings who wondered what I was drinking. I’ll throw a few out there now and then. I hate pictures of myself and thought, what a great way to get accustom to my own face.