I use to live for the weekend, the summer, a divorce, that new life. How much of this precious little time we have here on this beautiful earth, do you wish away? I stopped doing it a few years ago. I don’t remember if it was the untimely death of a younger member of the family or my cancer or just an epiphany I had. I try to look for good things every day. At the end of my day I will make a list of 10. Something as simple and beautiful as, I woke up next to my amazing man. Or today I will add to my list that I had an emotional and painful moment with my sisters. It made me think about our differences and that is all good. I don’t like to waste any of my time on wishing for something else, especially something like hurrying life along.